Disclosure in Anonymous Donor Egg IVF
I am often asked what part of my job I find the most gratifying. Though in general, I consider it a privilege to play a role in the care of all of my patients, working with donor egg IVF patients offers special rewards for both the patient and the caregiver. In most situations, the use of donor egg IVF has the most dramatic impact on a patient's chance for conception. In many cases a patient may be told there is little to no chance for success without donor egg IVF. With donor egg IVF, clinical pregnancy rates per attempt are 60-70%. It is usually the most successful form of treatment we can offer. Though a miracle for many, it is clearly not the right choice for everyone. There are many issues to consider, as obviously the donor egg recipient and "birth mother" is not the "genetic mother." There are also the issues of disclosure with anonymous egg donation. Do you tell friends, family and the child the identity of the "genetic mother?"
To address this often difficult question, a review article was recently published that closely examined the issue of disclosure in assisted reproduction involving donor sperm or donor egg IVF. This article summarized recent studies that assessed the impact of disclosure on egg or sperm donors, intended parents and offspring. The following represents excerpts of the study findings related to intended parents and offspring in donor egg IVF cycles. The impact of disclosure on egg and sperm donors has not yet become a major issue in the United States. However, in countries such as the United Kingdom where a donor registry is in place and a voluntary exchange and contact registry is proposed, the number of available donors is declining.
Two recent studies have been published examining how donor egg recipients make decisions about disclosure. In the first study, 79 couples undergoing donor egg IVF underwent an in-depth interview regarding how they dealt with disclosure issues. In approximately half of the couples interviewed, there was a difference in opinion regarding whether or not to tell friends, family or the child that the pregnancy was a result of donor egg IVF. Interestingly, by the end of the study, 95% of couples were able to reach a united decision about disclosure. This suggests that it is fairly common for a couple to initially disagree about disclosure in the setting of donor egg IVF. However, using a host of resources including professional counseling, the vast majority of couples reach an agreement. In the second study, in-depth interviews were conducted with women who conceived through the use of donor egg IVF. From these interviews, two main themes were noted. One was described as "engaging in selective disclosure"- patients would decide what information to disclose and to whom. The other theme was described as "responsibility toward the resulting child." For women that disclosed, this meant the right of the child to know. Non-disclosing and undecided women voiced concerns about the negative impact on parental relationships and possible social stigma and did not see a benefit from disclosing to offspring.
Regarding what is best for the child conceived through donor egg IVF, very few studies have adequately addressed this issue. Golombok and colleagues evaluated 48 families with a child conceived through donor egg IVF (also included were children born through donor sperm and naturally conceived children for comparison). They noted that 54% of families with children conceived through donor sperm or donor egg IVF intended to disclose, 46% did not plan to disclose or were undecided. No differences in parent-child relationships were noted between those families that did not disclose and those that did. However, study conclusions were limited as the children were only 2 years old. Subsequent reports from this group have evaluated families and their children at age 4-5 and 12 years old. At an approximate age of 4-½ years old, children conceived through donor egg IVF were not experiencing increased levels of psychological problems. At age 12, a time at which psychological problems might be expected to develop based on the experience of adopted children, donor egg children continued to show no evidence of psychological problems as assessed by direct interview and questionnaires. Interestingly, at the time of the study, only 6 out of the 17 families studied had already told, or planned to tell their child that they were conceived through donor egg.
Though the issue of disclosure can be a difficult one, patients should be comforted in knowing that research to date has not been able to document any adverse affects on the family or the child, regardless of how a patient approaches the issues of disclosure. However, it must be noted that this research is still in the preliminary stages and that hopefully, future studies will provide more definitive data.
This article, with a complete list of references, is available on the library at http://www.givf.com/



